Agony Aunt/Uncle

Hello, we have a Tuesday drop-in session 3.30-5.00pm or Friday night drop-in 6.30-8.30pm. If you are unable to come at these times, there are at times youth workers who might be able to help you.

You could always try to meet other boys or become more friendly with ones you already know, you may then move onto someone else. However if you still want to go out with him you could try asking him out again and see if he's changed his mind. Also if you are not that close with him, you can approach with friendship first before anything more serious. Good Luck!

Don't worry, I'm sure many are in the same situation as you at the moment, this is a normal feeling for someone your age. This is an important time for you, but getting stressed and burnt out will do more harm than good. Everybody finds different methods of revising more effective than others, so first of all you need to find the method of revision which suits your learning style the best and secondly take regular breaks to refresh your mind and to relax.. To approach the mother problem, you NEED to talk to her yourself before you do anything else, be frank and honest, and explain thats her behaviour is stressing you out more. If all else fails, talk to a teacher/head of year, and explain to them how this is making you feel, and ask if they could help you out and talk to your parents.

Sorry we haven't got back to you quick enough. It is normal for everyone to change, there will still be some qualities in her that you still like/recognise. It doesnt mean she still wont be your friend. Or even talk to her about it but be nice because she might like the new person she has become so think about the words you are going to say.
Hope this helps :)

Hello.
Thank you for getting in touch.
Talk to your girlfriend and ask her what the dealio is between you both. Explain your problem. If you resolve it you may stay together :) And if you do want to break up with her, tell her why. Tell her you don't want her to lie to you or feel like she can't say anything. If you're relationship isn't going to work maybe you can both go your separate ways, and maybe it's for the best.
Good luck, I hope you two work it out and are happy soon :)

Sorry for the late reply, we have not had the opportunity due to recent events. The question is, does this boy know that you have feelings for him, if not, take the opportunity to become friends with him, and take it step by step. If this person has his birthday coming up soon, we beleive it would be best to try and think about what to get him for this event. Get to know the things he likes, and things he would appreciate as a gift from you to him.
We hope this advice will be of use to you, we apologise again for the late reply.

You don't have to make friends by yourself, you can go to clubs with some of your mates and meet new people with them so they don't feel like your leaving them out. Your friends wanting you to themselves shows that they want to spend time with you, so that's is a nice thing for you. Another idea is to talk to them and explain that you really like them, but you feel you want to meet other people. Remember youth council will be happy for new members and are very friendly.

firstly we realise that you are in a difficult place, but you are not alone. There are other people going through what you are so there's people you can talk to; you can talk to youth workers at the youth center and you can talk to a teacher at your school who you trust. You can also write a letter to your parents saying what you want and in doing this your point can be put across with out getting stopped half way through. with this you may find it easyer to say what you want than saying it to their face. You may want to write the same letter twice so they can't compare and doubt how you feel. You need to let them know how you feel and although your in a difficult place you can ask them if you can do anything to help. and remember you can talk to a family member who you may be close to. We are always here if you want a chat or if you want to send another message. good luck x

To start with you could try to expand your friendships by joining school clubs and doing more activities such as the youth council, this will boost your confidence without you knowing it, so when she does leave you have other people you can talk to. Always remember that you can see your mate in the holidays. there is facebook, texting and even giving them a call. Remember they are not gone forever and you will always have support from us when you need it. Good luck and i hope it all goes well and ends up right!!!

to start with you should get to know her abit better and try to befriend her, this could make asking her out easyer. also if you get to know her you may find out where she likes to go and what she likes to do. if she seems not to be that into you dont force it apon her, give the girl space. (read her body lanuage) good luck!!!