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Answered 4th November 2013
There is this guy I really fancy but I don't think he'll be interested and I am afraid of not only the rejection and humiliation but also the public humiliation
Firstly, i would say to just relax, and keep calm. Just try and think about it, what's the worst that could happen? Maybe you could get to know him as a friend first; you never know, he may like you for who you are. If you are already friendly with him then maybe you could try just letting him know how you feel. If not just try and keep it slow and go at your own pace; don't get pressurized into anything. If you feel it might be the right time to let him know then do it, if not just let it pass. And if it doesn't work out it's not the end of the world. There are plenty of other people.
Answered 16th September 2013
There is this girl that keeps following me. Everything I do she wants to do or be part of which is really annoying. How do I tell her nicely to stop following me and my boyfriend every we go, as a result me and my boyfriend are never alone and it's really awkward. Help me
Try introduce her to new friend which will allow you and your boyfiend to get the quality time that you need. The reason shes constantly following you about is proberly because she admire you so don't compermise your friendship with her, just because you want time with your boyfriend. if she is following you around then she could be quite lonely, not have many other friends or just want to talk to somebody about something; so if you talk to her then be careful as hurting their feelings could worsen the problem. We understand how annoying and frustrating this is for you so maybe talking to her about it is the best option. she may not know she is intruding in your relationship so talking about it could help the situation greatly. who knows if you talk about things and she backs of you could become friends.
Answered 10th June 2013
I seem to be able to find anything under the sun to stop myself from revising. I'm really concerned that it will effect my grades!! HELP!!
Arranging revision with friends is often a good way of revising and having fun at the same time. Just remember, you need to focus on what you want to achieve in the future and work harder. It is for such a short time in compareson to the rest of your life.
Answered 10th June 2013
My brother insists on wearing the same clothes as me, and I don't like it. Is there anything I can do to dissuade him from doing it?
just talk to him, tell him that he is cramping your style! but think from his point of view, he has a cool older brother that he looks up too. he idolises you and wants to be like you, so it is a compliment to you. he loves you, follows and coppies you this much.
Answered 3rd June 2013
hi there, i have been constantly beat up by this horrible boy from next door, i can never get away from him,i really dont know what to do, help me!
You must speak to someone. If you can't talk to your parents try talking to a teacher or other adult at school. They will take you situation seriously and know how to help. You must tell someone.
Answered 29th April 2013
i am sooooo stressed about my exams coming up! i am in year 11 and have 12 exams coming up and i just cant revise. i have tried loads of different revision methods, gone and seen my teachers, but its not working! i feel that there are too many distractions for me, like xbox, friends and sport out of school. its really difficult as i do not want to waste my time and ruin my exams, but at the moment i can't focus. please help me, i need some advise!
hey, i'm sure many people can sympathise with so remember your not alone, the exam session is a very stessful time for everyone, self disapline is very difficult so ask your parents to help you. create a revision time table and keep to it, this will help you stay in control also remember you can ask your teachers for outside resourses to help you during this time, if all else fails you can always ask your head of year, remember they are here to help!
Answered 28th January 2013
hi guys, im a 15 year old boy, with a problem on my hands. there is a girl who texts me alot, i am polite, but sometimes ignore her! when i ignore her she texts me asking why i am ignoring her, its a circle of awkwardness. what do i do, im so confused, how do i get this annoying girl to stop talking to me so much!
just tell her, talking about it is the best way to sort things out, but dont talk behind her back. that is never good.
Answered 14th January 2013
Recently I got very drunk at a party an got arrested for being drunk and disorderly if that's not bad enough there are a few nasty rumors going around about me which arnt true. I'm scared to go back to school as people will say something and I'm scared I'm going to loose my friends over this incident. I really want to move on but I'm worried no one else will let me please help
Ignore what other people say because if its a rumour, you know its not true. You should go back to school because you are likely to jeapordise your future if you don't go back. Your friends won't leave you if they are true friends, however it is likely they will have some jokes with you over the incedent because they're good friends. If this begins to get too much, just let them know how you feel about the situation and it will eventually get better.
Answered 10th September 2012
Hi i was just wandering when i could come and get a c card and pick up condoms?
Hello, we have a Tuesday drop-in session 3.30-5.00pm or Friday night drop-in 6.30-8.30pm. If you are unable to come at these times, there are at times youth workers who might be able to help you.
Answered 16th July 2012
There Is this Boy I Really Like When I Asked Him Out He Said He Really Likes Me Too But He Didnt Want A Girlfriend. I Am Really Good Friends With His Brother And He Was Talking To Me About Him And He Said That He Really Wanted to Say Yes But He Has Never Had a Girlfriend Before So He Was Kind Of Scared Because If He did Anything Wrong. I Have Fancied Him For 3 1/2 Years And I Have Tried To Get Over im But I Cant! I Dont Know What To Do?
You could always try to meet other boys or become more friendly with ones you already know, you may then move onto someone else. However if you still want to go out with him you could try asking him out again and see if he's changed his mind. Also if you are not that close with him, you can approach with friendship first before anything more serious. Good Luck!