Agony Aunt/Uncle

Its up to you whether you speak to your grandad or not. You haven't fallen out with him, because your not the one in an arguement. They're still your family and I'm sure you still love them all the same. All families have there problems and its natural for you to feel worried or even scared. If your still concerned about the situation talk to you mum and tell her how you feel, even if its on a note or piece of paper. We hope for you that you will have a fantastic day and that there won't be any problems. Try enjoy the wedding! :)

It sounds like it is becoming quite serious, my advice to you is to actually speak to him and tell him exactly how you feel. If you have already tried this and it has not worked then make sure you keep your distance from him and let your friends know that you don't want to know if he has asked you out again. Should this still not work then talk to a teacher or youth worker. We hope our advice has helped you and good luck!

It's great for your friend that she has someone like you caring for you, but when people begin to act differently it can be very confusing. You should try and speak to your friend about it and it may be a good idea to go and see the school nurse together or speak to a teacher that you feel you can talk about it to.

If your friend doesn't want to talk about it maybe you could just speak to someone who will help you in understanding what your friend may be feeling or how you could possibly help her.

I hope this helps. Thankyou for the question, i'm sure it will help lots of other people as well.

This is a very common problem with friends; I suggest talking to both of them seperately, in order to find out why it is they don't like each other. They may just realise that they do actually like each other! Then, if you treat them both equally, it may just solve itself, plus you won't be treated as a go-between.

Ultimately, it's up to the guy, if he doesn't fancy either of them then there's no point arguing over it. If it's some silly crush then I would suggest just forgetting about it, as there're plenty more fish in the sea. If it is more serious and it could last as a long term relationship then they really need to sort things out between themselves. Try not to get involved because if you start to take sides then it might cause more problems.

If you dont want to be friends with this girl then you dont have to, it up to you who your friends with If she is trying to break you up then she isnt a true friend at all.

Freindship is the most important thing, so dont lose eachother over a boy because loosing your friend is the worst thing that can happen. Leave it up to the boy to make the decision, make sure that your both happy with the outcome.

There is nothing to be ashamed of, there are many other people who are in the same situation. Anything you choose to be is your choice. If you feel you want to talk about it, talk to a friend or adult you can trust.

Thankyou very much, we hope this website helps you and we hope we can help others in time to come.

Well first of all try talking to your two friends and explain the situation and how you feel. Maybe they dont realise they have been leaving you out? you could also try and make friends with this new girl. She may be really nice - if your 2 friends like her im sure you will because you have alot in common - thats why you were friends in the first place! If you try and things dont get better, maybe you should try and make some other friends who you can hang around with. Not all friendships last forever and you should just try and remember all the good times you had together. Good luck!